"...so many people apologize, and immediately say 'forgive me'. And, maybe this will sound a little weird, but sometimes it feels like they ask for forgiveness as a way of not really dealing with the damage they've caused."He calls this "'Apology At Gunpoint'; where if you don't 'forgive and forget' immediately, you become the problem."
He's not down on apologies -- just the fake ones that we all tend to do just a little more often than we should.